{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"Debra Joyce Family Law Consulting","home_page_url":"https://debrajoyce.com","description":"Debra Joyce Family Law Consulting","author":{"name":"Debra Joyce Family Law Consulting"},"items":[{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/co-parenting-in-recovery-why-step-up-plans-work","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>A structured parenting schedule during early sobriety can feel restrictive. Many parents want  to “make up for lost time” the moment they enter recovery. They feel stronger, clearer, and  newly motivated to engage with t...</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/co-parenting-in-recovery-why-step-up-plans-work","title":"Co-Parenting in Recovery:            Why Step-Up Plans Work","summary":"A structured parenting schedule during early sobriety can feel restrictive. Many parents want  to “make up for lost time” the moment they enter recovery. They feel stronger, clearer, and  newly motivated to engage with t...","date_modified":"2026-06-30T15:16:04Z"},{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/when-kids-say-different-things-to-different-parents","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>Children of separated parents often feel pulled between two people they love. They don’t usually talk about that pressure directly; they show it indirectly. One common way is by telling each parent what they think that p...</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/when-kids-say-different-things-to-different-parents","title":"When Kids Say Different Things to Different Parents","summary":"Children of separated parents often feel pulled between two people they love. They don’t usually talk about that pressure directly; they show it indirectly. One common way is by telling each parent what they think that p...","date_modified":"2026-05-27T04:16:02Z"},{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/when-conflict-becomes-the-air-kids-breathe","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>Parents and co-parents frequently assume their child is shielded from their conflict because arguments don’t happen in front of them. But children detect emotional climate with extraordinary sensitivity. Tone, tension, h...</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/when-conflict-becomes-the-air-kids-breathe","title":"When Conflict Becomes the Air Kids Breathe","summary":"Parents and co-parents frequently assume their child is shielded from their conflict because arguments don’t happen in front of them. But children detect emotional climate with extraordinary sensitivity. Tone, tension, h...","date_modified":"2026-05-27T04:11:18Z"},{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/the-two-truths-principle-for-co-parents","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>Divorced parents often hold firm views about what their children need, or what makes a home stable, safe, and nurturing. It’s natural to believe that your own way is the best way. But children adapt to different environm...</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/the-two-truths-principle-for-co-parents","title":"The \"Two Truths\" Principle for Co-Parents","summary":"Divorced parents often hold firm views about what their children need, or what makes a home stable, safe, and nurturing. It’s natural to believe that your own way is the best way. But children adapt to different environm...","date_modified":"2026-05-27T03:31:58Z"},{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/the-thirteen-principles-of-healthy-co-parenting","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>I. KNOW THYSELF</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/the-thirteen-principles-of-healthy-co-parenting","title":"The Thirteen Principles of Healthy Co-Parenting","summary":"I. KNOW THYSELF","date_modified":"2026-05-27T03:23:07Z"},{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/the-hidden-ways-kids-try-to-protect-their-parents","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>Children of separated or divorced parents often take on emotional tasks that a child should not have to manage. They watch their parents’ moods closely, sense tension quickly, and adjust their own behavior to keep the pe...</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/the-hidden-ways-kids-try-to-protect-their-parents","title":"The Unexpected Ways Kids Try To Protect Their Parents","summary":"Children of separated or divorced parents often take on emotional tasks that a child should not have to manage. They watch their parents’ moods closely, sense tension quickly, and adjust their own behavior to keep the pe...","date_modified":"2026-05-27T02:45:55Z"},{"id":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/healthy-boundaries-in-two-home-families","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/a8825f7c-fef3-4a5f-969a-a821c1cd88ba/rs%3Dw_984%2Ch_657.webp\"/><p>After separation, newly minted co-parents begin the work of creating two stable, independent homes for their child. Each new household develops its own rules, routines, expectations, and ways of doing things. Even when p...</p>","url":"https://debrajoyce.com/co-parenting-guides/f/healthy-boundaries-in-two-home-families","title":"Healthy Boundaries in Two-Home Families","summary":"After separation, newly minted co-parents begin the work of creating two stable, independent homes for their child. Each new household develops its own rules, routines, expectations, and ways of doing things. Even when p...","date_modified":"2026-05-27T02:23:34Z"}]}